What’s in your heart?

Tender Exchange by Radical Ritual invites you to pause for a moment of connection in the midst of a busy world. Whisper something that matters to you into a carved wooden heart — a hope, a truth, a memory, or a thought you want held — and pass it to someone you trust. The heart beats gently in your hands, and as more voices gather inside it, the rhythm shifts, signalling that it is full and ready to return.

When you bring it back, your words become part of a shared listening ritual — a space where feelings are woven together, and held with care.

In a world more divided than ever, the power of community has never been more vital. Tender Exchange offers a simple yet powerful experience: a living folk exchange that celebrates generosity, vulnerability, and the quiet courage of being heard. It creates a moment where strangers meet with compassion, and trust grows through small acts of openness.

Creative Team 

Artistic Director: Becca Gill 

Hearts and plinths built by: Ollie Finn

Design by: Paul Reardon

Heart technology by: xplor Research and Innovation Centre 

Soundtrack:Malia Walia

Beautiful piece.  Something that embeds community voice and enables people to speak freely and share with others.  Audience member – Norwich and Norfolk Festival

A genius idea.  A way for people to connect even when they don’t know each other.  Connecting and spreading love. Audience member – Norwich and Norfolk Festival

It was so beautiful and deeply moving to take part.  I sat at the nearby coffee shop and just listened for an hour after I’d participated.  The beating of the heart cracked me wide open.Audience member – Norwich and Norfolk Festival

Tender Exchange is a Radical Ritual production supported by Without Walls and commissioned by Brighton Festival, Activate/Inside Out Dorset, Stockton International Riverside Festival, and Freedom Festival.

Person holding a wooden heart-shaped speaker with a decorative strip around its middle, outdoors with a grassy background.
A woman holding a wooden heart-shaped object near her ear at an outdoor park or garden, with trees and blurred people in the background.
Tender Exchange event with a large black banner that says, 'What's in your heart?' with a decorative floral heart symbol.
Woman with bright pink hair listening to Tender Exchange heart next to wooden plinth
A woman standing outdoors with banners, holding a wooden heart.

TOURING


9th & 10th May 2026


16th & 17th May 2026


1st & 2nd August 2026


28th & 29th August 2026


5th & 6th September 2026


1st & 2nd October 2026


Good Grief Festival - Weston Super Mare

17th October 2026

A woman with bright red hair and a man wearing a black beanie and black jacket are listening to a Tender Exchange heart.

Privacy Notice — Tender Exchange

As part of Tender Exchange, we record what visitors choose to share with us through the hearts. These recordings may be played as audio through the plinths at the artwork, and shared anonymously online. We never publish your name or other identifying details alongside them.

Recordings are stored securely and only used for this artwork. If you'd like your recording removed, or have any questions about how it's used, please email us by clicking below.